Guest of the Week: Anita Wag Agrimanaki, expatriate in Greece

To FREEDOMtravel

Advertisement

Anita Wag Agrimanaki worked as a tour guide for Apollo in Greece in the early 90s, and while working there she found love in Crete. Now Anita has lived in Crete with her husband for 25 years and they have two children, now aged 16 and 20.

Tweet

Share

Share

Pin

Share

Share

In today's interview, Anita talks about the open and generous Greek people, but also about the tough economic challenges facing the country and its people. Anita also shares her tips for those who want to visit Crete as a tourist. If you want to follow Anita's everyday life in Greece, you can check out her blog. Anitas Crete.

How did you end up in Greece and Crete in the first place and how long have you lived there now?

In 1992 I got a job as a tour guide with Apollo. I knew nothing about Crete and hoped to work on Rhodes or some island in the Cyclades. I ended up in Chania in Crete and worked for Apollo for 3 years as a tour guide and booking manager. During that time I met my husband, got engaged and married.

Can you tell us about your family and your daily life in Crete?

We have 2 children who are 16 and 20 years old. Daily life during the tourist season April-October usually consists of work 7 days a week. In the winter, we are unemployed and the husband tries to find "day jobs" as an olive picker or if he is lucky, some renovation jobs at the hotel where he works as a chef in the summers.

To cut to the chase, summers mean working as much as possible to pay bills and try to make enough money to survive the winter. In winter, we have plenty of time but usually not the financial means to do anything that costs money. It may sound terrible, but like many Greeks today, we make the best of the situation. We still indulge in small trips, eating well and going out to eat in between.

The last year has been a bit different because I went to Sweden to work for 6 months. For the last 8 years I had my own shop which I closed down last year. Then I started looking for a job here. I was offered several jobs but I really can't stand up and work for 6-700 euros for a full time job.

Salaries now are incredibly low. In the years after I left Apollo, I worked in hotel reception and had about double what the salaries are today. Prices, taxes, electricity and other things have gone up and salaries and pensions have gone down. There is no balance at all.

What are the main cultural differences you experience between Sweden and Greece?

Here, people are more vocal and if they have a complaint about something, they tell the person directly. They don't stand quietly and pretend that everything is fine and then write down the complaints and send them to the company or organisation in question. Hence the chaos that prevails in queues, among other things.

Sometimes you might think that Greeks interfere too often, but sometimes that's a good thing too, it means they see and hear what's going on around them. They give way to the elderly on buses, they let pregnant women go ahead in queues, they try to calm unknown screaming children. (My son once screamed in a shop because he couldn't buy me sweets - then a Greek, unknown to me, brought him a chocolate bar).

They find it easier to "invite the team around", which Swedes often find difficult. Even now, in times of crisis, they do so, but you see more and more now that the bill at the restaurant is shared because most people are having a hard time financially. Here it is usually more relaxed to socialise and everyday life is not as routine, a spontaneous coffee at someone's home is more ok here. A glass of wine after work or even at work despite having to get up and work the next day is more accepted here.

Life is not as routine even though a lot has changed here too and it is becoming more routine here than it was before. This may be because the children have more activities that they have to be taken around. The spontaneous play in the neighbourhood is disappearing more and more and people are becoming more "busy" than they used to be.

Something that has not changed, however, is that if someone comes to your home at dinner time, an extra plate is always set out, plus if you have 6 people invited to dinner, it can easily be 16 instead. Everyone is welcome. People find it easier to share, I think. Someone has an orange tree, well then of course everyone gets friends from these oranges.

What is the best thing about living in Greece and Crete?

A bit like the answers above ... Otherwise the best thing about Greece: the climate, the sea, the food, the atmosphere. The best thing about Sweden: Everything is so organised, good wages, actually easier to find extra prices at the supermarket, cheap internet and phone, greenery and nature.

Do you miss anything from Sweden and if so, what?

See above 🙂 Then there are some things that you can live without but that are fun and good to get down sometimes. Loose candy, sourdough crackers, pearl sugar (!) to bake buns, the library!!! what an incredible thing really to be able to borrow books and at least the library in my city is so nice ... Strong cheeses like priest cheese and Svecia.

How has the economic crisis affected ordinary Greeks and how do people see the future in Greece today?

When I returned from my 6 months in Sweden, I discovered that this is often the topic of conversation between Greeks. (It used to be, but I didn't react as much.) It sounds like people have given up and what life is all about is TRYING to pay all the bills on time.

It is very rare to hear someone being satisfied with their situation and looking forward to the future. Poor children growing up now, their dreams are shattered at once when they hear their parents always talking about the poor economy. I am often told that we should be happy that we "have another country" where our children can go, because the future here is what it is.

What are your best tips for tourists who want to visit Crete?

Rent a car and go to small villages, eat in small taverns and don't be afraid to try unfamiliar dishes. Be open-minded and get to know the locals, they will give you the best tips on where to eat. For God's sake, skip the all-inclusive!!! Wow, all the tips have to do with food... Crete has wonderful beaches and Elafonissi is often on lists of best beaches. If you're interested in history, the archaeological excavations here are a real treat.

Finally, a question we ask everyone we interview: What is your dream destination?

There are several. I wish we could afford not to work one summer and instead spend a whole summer lounging around Greece. Both on the mainland and on the islands. At some point I will go to Ireland and Scotland too.

Thank you Anita Wag Agrimanaki for sharing your experiences and thoughts!

Top photo: Anita Wag Agrimanaki and her husband Jannis.

You might also like:

Moving to Portugal - Kristina's story 3 restaurants in Athens with extraordinary Christmas decoration

All you want is Greece!

The Sporades archipelago - all you want is Greece!

Greece: a life-changing experience